My ethos
We live in a society saturated with sexual images and innuendo, where most commentary on sex is crass or moralistic, and where sex education comes from porn.
Meanwhile, a clumsy coupling of political correctness and schoolboy sniggering makes it almost impossible to have an honest, adult chat about our real desires.
Advertising and the media sell us a sanitised, airbrushed ideal, bereft of creative exploration, unique fantasy or physical imperfection, and where sex is only good if you’re doing it the commercially-sanctified way…
Read more...Latest Articles
The Guardian
Condom seizures from sex workers are undoing years of progress on HIV/Aids
Fifty Shades of Theresa May – where the punishment fits the crime
Women raped while in the US military are denied abortions. End this now.
The New Statesman
Using because I’m a man as an excuse for inevitable response to sexism is just plain sexist
Why Boris Johnson should step in to save London’s WorldPride parade
My latest book
"A visceral, explicitly honest account of compulsion, half-truths and naked emotion... full of dark sexual humour and latent eroticism."Amazon.co.uk review
Salons & Events
Curious to explore a kinky fantasy but don’t know how to go about it? Need to know the safest way to tie someone up? Always wanted to learn to spank?
Drawing on her experience as a professional dominatrix and a personal ‘switch’ and submissive, Nichi creates an intimate, relaxed atmosphere in which she shares sensual sexual knowledge and tips, and demonstrates how to use a wide array of sex toys, S and M props and domestic objects alike to enhance your pleasure in the bedroom.
Whether it’s a private tutorial, a bespoke erotic master class for you and your partner, or a more sophisticated twist on the traditional Hen or Birthday Party, Nichi can design a salon to suit.
All budgets catered for; prices available on request.


