30th July 2018 – Dating post-Ghosting and #MeToo                Funzing @Juju’s, Shoreditch

Sick of being ghosted? Exhausted by apps? Craving a genuine connection?

The inimitable Nimko Ali and Nichi will be talking you through the perils – and pleasures – of dating today, leading a frank, fierce and open-hearted conversation.

Challenging the media narrative about 21st century millennial love – and how to find it – we’ll draw on insights from the history of dating, secret app data, and personal experience, we’ll help you reach some firm decisions and game-changing solutions.

Tickets £12  available here.


June 28 – July 1 2018 – ALSO Festival,                                    Compton Verney, Warwickshire






Nichi will be hosting:

  • ‘Dating hacks from History’ – can tricks from the past teach us to how to love in the present?
  • Weekend Papers Live with guests including Jamie Bartlett, Michael Brookes, Natalie Haynes and others TBA

Tickets available here




July 21 – 23rd 2017 – Curious Arts Festival

Nichi will be speaking to The Amorist editor Rowan Pelling about her latest book, The Curious History of Dating

Tickets available here

July 11th 2016 – Virtual Morality in association with Dazed

Nichi will be speaking as part of a panel on the topic of Virtual Morality, alongside GQ’s Rebecca Newman and MysteryVibe’s Stephanie Alys.

How is sex tech changing how we treat one another? Will we soon be having physical relationships with objects? Or are our partners just becoming more like objects to us?

Tickets are on sale now at £12.50


Let’s Talk About Sex: WOW 2015, Southbank Centre

On this group panel with Rachel Morris, Penny Pepper, Campbell X, and Sam Roddick, Nichi spoke on porn, power, kink, and why submission can be a feminist act, in front of a packed audience at WOW.



Festival No. 6,  5 September 2014


Nichi appeared at Wilderness festival on 8 August 2014, speaking about the art of erotic communication, with Salon London

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Sex Salons – as featured in Time Out London

Nichi has hosted sensual domination and sex skills workshops at Coco de Mer boutique

Read more about what goes on at one of Nichi’s salons.



Bawdy Storytelling

Nichi has performed twice at the sexual confessions show, Bawdy Storytelling, in San Francisco.

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